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I don't have a toothbrush and other stories

Click on "Patricia's stories" to read her fascinating stories, or on "Nino's stories" to read mine. The chapters are numbered in sequence.

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Chapter 10 - AND THE ADVENTURE CONTINUES

We had a nice big house, but with thirteen more occupants, I had to do a little rearranging, be a little creative. I had plenty of help,...

Chapter 9 - STAR WARS

Bert picked us up very early in the morning. Definitely not my time of day, Bobby, Seng, and Annie were ready, and we headed downtown...

Chapter 8 - WE'RE OUT OF RICE

I had made a joke, with Bobby, and had used a " press'n peels", (the early post-its) to stick on his forehead to remind him- of the words...

Chapter 7 - OLD TEK

They seemed to follow me around the house, commenting quietly to each other, on each thing I did or used. I got out the vacuum cleaner,...

Chapter 6 - TV CAN BE SCARY

The chaos and excitement of the first week or so had taken a toll on my little girls. They were tired and getting cranky. It had been...

Chapter XI - KENNY, MY BUDDY

I don’t know how Tim became the chef of Russels Restaurant in Catonsville, as he had no culinary skills, but there must have been...

Chapter 5 - PROFESSOR GOODIE

Goodren, a dignified woman, also a professor at the University, began to give me the organizational chart she had made with the rest of...

Chapter 4 - MY NAME IS WHORE...

So it all began. Endless forms to fill out, immigration, social services, school registrations, doctor and clinic forms. And no real...

Chapter 3 - AH DO BELIEVE AH AM SEEIN' NAKED PEOPLE!

I woke up the next morning to my dog whining and a loud crash coming from the bathroom. That was followed by some water turning on and...

Chapter 2 - ABOUT HAIR AND BANANAS

Loretta had warned about the first part of coming home. She explained how since this group was direct from the border, they hadn't even...

Chapter 1 - WELCOME IN AMERICA

Quaker meeting every Sunday. We meditated. We prayed for the innocent Cambodians. We pondered the horror of the slaughter. Then we...

Chapter X - I AM A LEGAL ALIEN

"Which perfume does your wife wear? "Youth Dew from Estee Lauder” “What is her favorite food?” “I think leg of lamb” “You think or you...

Flounder is on sale this week

" Miriam, have you adjusted the mirrors?" " Yes, Francis, I have, Do you have your seat belt on, Dear?" " Of course, and I have the...

Chapter IX - I'LL SHOW YOU THE WAY

Patricia was driving the Dodge, kids in the back, sandwiches in a cool box, and me sitting next to her in the front, loving her with...

Chapter VIII - POINTY SHOES

I ENVIED THEM FOR THE LIFE THEY BUILT UP IN THE FIVE MONTHS WITHOUT ME, BUT I ALSO FELT BLESSED THAT I WAS GOING TO BE PART OF THEIR...

Chapter VII - IS IT YOU, STACY KEACH?

I was thinking back on just days before, saying goodbye to my sister who lived in Spain, and to my mother, my grandmother, and good...

Chapter VI - HOW DEEP IS YOUR LOVE

I drank a lot. In the end, my alcoholism was such a big part of our life, it turned everything around for the worse. Drinking almost...

Chapter V - SHE PICKED ME!

LITTLE DID I KNOW THEN THAT SHE WOULD LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY AND TEACH ME ABOUT FAMILY LIFE, LOVE AND DOING THINGS WITH CARE FOR THE...

Chapter IV - AND THEN WE WERE FOUR

“Patricia, there is a guy with a heavy accent on the phone for you, I think it is him” “Hi Nino, how are you?“ “Good, what are you...

Chapter III - WALKING ON CLOUDS

I woke up remembering a great night going out, first to Pepe’s Bar, a Spanish place which Patricia later referred to as “that Fellini...

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